Very early in my life, my doctor told me that my likelihood of having my children would be very slim. Adoption was always in my heart. Later, even as a single mom, I realized I could provide a loving, stable home for teens. Fostering teenagers, especially those who have faced trauma, is challenging but incredibly rewarding. It’s about seeing beyond behaviors and understanding the underlying hurt. Balancing a career while fostering is tough, but with a strong support system, it’s possible. The journey has its ups and downs, but the rewards far outweigh the challenges. I’m grateful for this opportunity.
Being a Christian Foster Mom to a Trans Kid
Navigating societal expectations as a Christian foster mom to a trans kid is challenging. My foster child didn’t choose to be trans to fit a box—he became trans because society imposes rigid gender norms. The most harmful message a child can hear is that they’re only perfect if they conform. My foster child carried a history of judgment and uncertainty when he came to live with me. It’s not about changing who he is; it’s about embracing him for exactly who he is. By fostering love and acceptance, I hope to help him heal and grow without fear or judgment.