The first time I saw our case’s Level of Care (LOC) assessment, I hadn’t even filled it out myself. Based on conversations and observations, Our caseworker completed it on my behalf. When I read it, I wondered if I was doing enough. If I was enough. The checkboxes listed therapy, medications, IEPs, physical care, and…
Author: Christi Brown
Why… Why become a mom now?
Very early in my life, my doctor told me that my likelihood of having my children would be very slim. Adoption was always in my heart. Later, even as a single mom, I realized I could provide a loving, stable home for teens. Fostering teenagers, especially those who have faced trauma, is challenging but incredibly rewarding. It’s about seeing beyond behaviors and understanding the underlying hurt. Balancing a career while fostering is tough, but with a strong support system, it’s possible. The journey has its ups and downs, but the rewards far outweigh the challenges. I’m grateful for this opportunity.
Being a Christian Foster Mom to a Trans Kid
Navigating societal expectations as a Christian foster mom to a trans kid is challenging. My foster child didn’t choose to be trans to fit a box—he became trans because society imposes rigid gender norms. The most harmful message a child can hear is that they’re only perfect if they conform. My foster child carried a history of judgment and uncertainty when he came to live with me. It’s not about changing who he is; it’s about embracing him for exactly who he is. By fostering love and acceptance, I hope to help him heal and grow without fear or judgment.